docwebster ([personal profile] docwebster) wrote2002-12-15 08:01 pm

A couple of mini-rants.

Caveat: The following represents nothing more than itches of the intellect, and as I'm already in a particularly foul mood anyway, please take it with a large grain of salt, or I will be forced to tie a knot in your trachea. Thank you.



Christmas.

You know, I'm not by any means a stereotypical Christian. Not even close, it must be said. But I do get mightily annoyed when people don't treat it with as much respect as they would like for their religion, or lack thereof as the case may be. If you want respect, you give respect. Otherwise, kindly shut your cake hole. Hypocrisy doesn't wear well on anyone, least of all people who presumably have an intelligence quotient somewhat above that of a squashed gnat.

There is one extremely dear person whose journal shall remain nameless (because this person truly is very cool, but if they choose to react to this, it's not my place to say them nay) who had , in their journal, one of the most condescending things I've ever read. To wit, referring to Christ as "An imaginary friend". In other words, if you believe in Christ you're displaying the approximate maturity of a preschooler. Nice.

I reiterate: it's perfectly okay if you don't believe. It's perfectly okay if your religion of choice is worshipping a left handed Albanian dentist from Newark named Morty. But do *not* look down your nose at those who believe in Christ, simply because they believe in the brand that's been (arguably) number one on the metaphysical hit parade for a couple millenia or so.

And don't come to me with "Well the Christian religion has been blahblahblahing the worshippers of blahblahblah for x number of years" (or any of the innumerable variations thereupon) argument. That's not the issue here. The issue is inherent hypocrisy. In short, knock it the hell off.

Now, on to Gender neutrality.

I will be the first to admit we of the male half of the species have been - by and large but by no means all - enormous assheads since pretty much day one. But if I hear or see the phrase "Gender neutral" one more gaddam time, I am going to snap.

Guess what, folks - we have different genders. Deal with it. I am entirely weary of the efforts of some of our citizenry to make this society we live in seemingly as bland and as featureless as Pat Boone music.

I mean.. "sie"? "Hir"? (Don't even get me started on "Zie") By changing one letter, it's supposed to redress the balance? No, it just simply makes you look like you can't spell.



Ah. That's better.

[identity profile] dandelion-diva.livejournal.com 2002-12-16 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
I mean.. "sie"? "Hir"? (Don't even get me started on "Zie") By changing one letter, it's supposed to redress the balance? No, it just simply makes you look like you can't spell.

That's not what they're about. If I don't know someone's gender, I'm going to use hie/sie and so on, because, I don't care what anyone says, He is fucking well *not* a gender-neutral pronoun. (Big button, which you, my dear, did not press. It just seems to come up in these conversations.) Sometimes, the gender of the person one is speaking of doesn't matter. There are also a few people I know who don't have an easily...categorized gender and prefer that people use hie/sie etc . when referring to them.

For me, gnps are more about preciseness of language. I've been using them for years now, and I'm sorry if they piss you off, but I doubt I'll stop anytime soon, sweetcheeks. Not that you asked me to. I'm just cranky. Hope I didn't get too much on you.

Love you.

Gesi

[identity profile] browngirl.livejournal.com 2002-12-16 09:03 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you, Gesi.

A.