Oh, there you are.
Nov. 2nd, 2010 05:21 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
They showed up at 9 and wouldn't even let me go get the money. We're at an Econolodge until we can find a place, and the cats are with Animal Control. Heartsick doesn't even begin to cover it.
I'll talk about it when I can summon the energy to, but as of right now we're homeless. Victims.. aren't we all?
I'll talk about it when I can summon the energy to, but as of right now we're homeless. Victims.. aren't we all?
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Date: 2010-11-02 11:28 pm (UTC)Well, at least you have money for a security deposit on your next place, and you won't have to deal with these asshats again.
So they weren't interested in the cash at all
Date: 2010-11-03 12:31 am (UTC)Do not fight for that place. If you had the cash today and handed it over, you would be in this exact position in less than an month when they came up with something else.
Remember this?
You Must Start Keeping Track of Your Money.
Get an accounting book.
Start with the amount you have received from donations. Do not count ANY OTHER money. Do not count on Future Money no matter how in the bag it is. I was stuck behind $250 for months because I counted on an "in the bag deal".
You are not starting from Zero, you're starting from 3k.
Hell a piece of graph paper. Just keep track of what go paid how much and and when.
I'm might be staring down the barrel of a lawsuit myself over $17 a collection agency that I never paid money to insists I pay despite my handling it with the electric company. I am depending on the automatic paper trail of the bank for that.
Pick yourself up by your bootstraps.
You've already been kicked before - you know how it feels.
Get Up.
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Date: 2010-11-03 12:31 am (UTC){{{{{{{{{{ Hugs }}}}}}}}}}
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Date: 2010-11-03 12:38 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 01:16 am (UTC)Talk to a lawyer
Date: 2010-11-03 02:13 am (UTC)http://ago.mo.gov/publications/landlordtenant.pdf
Re: Talk to a lawyer
Date: 2010-11-03 02:29 am (UTC)This is your own fault. Fix it by becoming aware of your rights, or continue being walked on by everyone around you.
Re: Talk to a lawyer
Date: 2010-11-03 02:57 am (UTC)Re: Talk to a lawyer
Date: 2010-11-03 03:09 am (UTC)Re: Talk to a lawyer
Date: 2010-11-03 12:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 02:59 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 03:07 am (UTC)Good thoughts and vibes on the way.
Love you very much.
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Date: 2010-11-03 03:26 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 03:36 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 03:37 am (UTC)I know that this is terribly stressful right now. But being away from these people will be better for you in the long run.
May you find your way to a safe, affordable and comfortable place, instead.
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Date: 2010-11-03 03:57 am (UTC)Doc, you have my sympathies. I hope your bank has all of the appropriate records and can prove the landlord was mistaken, which will help in civil court. If they show that they screwed up, I hope your bank has the humanity to help you given the extreme circumstances their mistake put you in.
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Date: 2010-11-03 04:13 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 04:27 am (UTC)If I can help, let me know.
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Date: 2010-11-03 12:34 pm (UTC)looks like they really wanted you out, legally or otherwise.
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Date: 2010-11-03 05:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-03 09:36 pm (UTC)they showed up at 9
Date: 2010-11-05 09:40 am (UTC)